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You only rarely experience sexual attraction and/or only under certain circumstances and/or you experience sexual attraction without the desire to act on it

You generally don't experience sexual attraction, but you might experience sexual attraction toward someone after forming an emotional bond with them

You might experience sexual attraction toward someone you just met. Once you get to know them better, the sexual attraction will fade/disappear

You generally don't experience sexual attraction, but you might experience sexual attraction to someone once you realize that they feel that way toward you

You might experience sexual attraction toward someone, but not want/need them to reciprocate your feelings and/or you might even lose your sexual attraction towards them if they do

You don't experience sexual attraction but desire a sexual relationship

You don't have the desire to receive sexual acts, but you have the desire to perform them on someone

You don't have the desire to perform sexual acts on someone, but you have the desire to receive them

You can't tell whether you experience sexual attraction or platonic attraction and distinguish them by using other factors

You can't tell whether or not you experience sexual attraction or you can't tell what kind of attraction you experience

Your sexuality can't be explained with words

Your sexuality is fluid and/or often changes

Your sexuality fluctuates between different levels of asexual and allosexual

You experience a disconnection between yourself and the object of your sexual attraction/fantasy

You don't experience sexual attraction and are sex-repulsed

You only rarely experience romantic attraction and/or only under certain circumstances and/or you experience romantic attraction without the desire to act on it

You generally don't experience romantic attraction, but you might experience romantic attraction toward someone after forming an emotional bond with them

You might experience romantic attraction toward someone you just met. Once you get to know them better, the romantic attraction will fade/disappear

You generally don't experience romantic attraction, but you might experience romantic attraction to someone once you realize that they feel that way toward you

You might experience romantic attraction toward someone, but not want/need them to reciprocate your feelings and/or you might even lose your romantic attraction towards them if they do

You don't experience romantic attraction but desire a romantic relationship

You don't have the desire to receive romantic affection, but you have the desire to show some

You don't have the desire to show romantic affection for someone, but you have the desire to receive some

You can't tell whether you experience romantic attraction or platonic attraction and distinguish them by using other factors

You can't tell whether or not you experience romantic attraction or you can't tell what kind of attraction you experience

Your romantic orientation can't be explained with words

Your romantic orientation is fluid and/or often changes

Your romantic attraction fluctuates between different levels of aromantic and alloromantic

You experience a disconnection between yourself and the object of your romantic attraction/fantasy

You don't experience romantic attraction and are romance-repulsed